What to do if we miss someone (a gentle suggestion)

Missing someone is an important feeling that can be very beneficial!

You don't need to ignore it - take the time out if you can to go into the vision, explore the depths of your feeling, explore any visions, sights, sounds, tastes etc and in the centre of your own vision say to yourself, what is it that I want in my life from this person? What role do they currently play and what role would I like them to play?

Once you're done (spend five minutes to half an hour max), ground, write down your experience and draw it, colour it in if you like (it's always good to have a handy pencil case of colours, try water soluble ones as they blend like chalk pastels to create beautiful pastel shades and mix with each other too), and think, how can I make my positive healing vision and ideas a reality? Maybe you could make them a little card, or draw/paint them a picture!

Maybe tell the person you miss them! Speak gently from the heart to them, send them a card or message, or even better, call them up and have a good old chat! During the conversation, you could be brave and tell them you miss them and would love to see them sometime!

Sometimes, the simple and childlike, innocent communication of your emotions is the best. 

In this world, many of us worry at times about what we should and shouldn't say. We are afraid of hurting people or being socially inappropriate but really, speaking and writing gently from the heart is ok, loving, simple, says what we need to say and shouldn't hurt anyone too much.

By the way, to any stalkers out there (maybe a lot of us have done a kind of stalking before ;-) ) remember the other person also has a clear vision for what they want in their life and it may be different from yours, or it may appear to be at first. Respect their wishes and if you do want different things, keep working with the heart (contact me if you want further advice or clarification on this, working with chakras and the ideas talked about here) and hopefully with the heart and further advice if necessary, you will both move to where you need to be in each other's lives.

To contact me with any queries, or for a paid advice session via email or telephone, email nataliewindsor@live.co.uk